AskMen Reader
So back in late november, I met this girl via friends. It took about a week and a half before we hooked up, but we ended up spending a lot of time together afterwards and it went on for weeks. Things escalated quickly as she asked if she could call me baby after about a week. Followed by having brunch together for Christmas Eve and then spending News Years together at her family's house. She even took me to my first NFL game on New Year's Day. Shortly after, she sat down with me and told me that she hasn't been seeing anyone else and she really liked me. I told her the same and was honest about it. A couple of days later, she tells me after we have sex that she goes through this phase where she goes all out for someone she really likes, and then chickens out and runs away. She said when this happens to just be patient with her and she would come around eventually. I didn't know what this meant so I just kept it cool. Until the very next day she starts acting flaky. She starts changing plans on me and makes it obvious something is up. I ask and she says it has to do with some serious family and friends stuff (she told me the reasons and they were serious). So I was being understanding as possible. That friday, i decide to call her and told her I was going to stay in tonight and wanted her to have fun with her friends. I was trying to give her space and I also found out I had family issues that day, so I didn't want to burden her. She goes out, but then texts me after an hour to come out too. I ended up going out, but when I get there she gives me an attitude and a bitch face in front of her friends. Not sure what to think, I just play it cool and just hangout. She started being nice to me, but then it be a constant mood swing. At the end of the weekend, she tells me she wants to break it off. It has now been three months and I haven't heard from her since, though she says she really wanted to be at least friends. She basically deleted me off social media (fb, instagram, and snapchat) over the span of three months, even though I haven't bothered her or anything. I am just confused on why someone would do this if they really liked me. I know she got out of a 6 year relationship around the sametime I got out of mine which was a year ago, so I would assume partially has to do with that and the fact she is graduating and doesn't know what she is doing yet. Any advice would be nice.
Dating
This one in my opinion is not worth it, but I will tell you what you want to know. It is a good skill to be unmoved by a woman's bad attitude, but it is not the only skill. She wanted to anger you with her bad attitude and eventually she just gave up. You need to show anger but under control. You need to show that you care but are not going to put up with any BS. Show strength and bite.When you were hanging with her friends and she was giving you attitude and bitch face. You should have been joking and winning over her friends, but then took her aside and told her that unless she drops the attitude that you are going put her over your knee and spank her like a little girl right in front of her friends. Tell her to dont force you to do it. Now you probably actually dont do it, but you need to make her take you seriously.
If this does not work, well there was probably no way to make it work.
Best reply I’ve seen. Seriously women sometimes play some wicked head games. Charming her friends then pulling her aside and saying she’s going to get spanked, is seriously the best mix of sexual charisma and assertiveness to snap a woman out of it. If that doesn’t work, she’s not worth it!
ncG1vNJzZmivp6x7or%2FKppynZpOkunCtzayunqqjZK6tuI5qbXBqYmmGbsPHsmSwp6WhsW6%2Fx55knZ2cmsGmecyeZKielmLAsK%2FImqNmpZWZtqJ6x62kpQ%3D%3D